One sad fact of my gaming experience is that I actively try to avoid most multiplayer games. I can't say that I've had some totally awful event occur that made me quit forever, but I do find them to be a source of stress. Especially games that throw you together with a large group of strangers. I played World of Warcraft for over six years and had mostly positive experiences. I credit this mostly to my extreme pickiness when selecting a guild. I thoroughly vetted the guilds I joined to make sure that there wouldn't be drama (most of the time) and tried to find people who had a similar background to my own (working adults, mid-core gamers, friendly and helpful...like that). I am not sure that my experiences are typical--one guild I belonged to was almost 50/50 male to female. It was great because there were other women there.
But I do feel like I dealt with many of the issues that are covered in this video. I don't like talking on voice chat and will usually mute it at the first opportunity. I have had to answer questions about my gender (I've been told that I sound like a twelve year-old boy) for really no reason. I've had really uncomfortable moments where people have asked me how old I was (I got a totally creepy vibe from that one and actually lied about it because of that vibe--if anyone asks I'm 65 and newly retired). I've seen other women do ridiculous things to get in good with the crowd and then have it completely backfire (it's never a good idea to send anyone nudes--just don't do it!). It's sad that I don't want to play multiplayer games because I know I'll be harassed, that I can't talk on voice chat, and that women are pressured to expose themselves to fit in.
I do think video games need a feminist voice. I'm not saying that they need to completely change, but there is a deeply disturbing part of gamer culture that has made something that is supposed to be fun into something miserable for women. Come on guys, think about it--you have an opportunity to share your hobby or passion with women. Isn't that a good thing? Wouldn't you rather share the experience than simply try to shut women out or isolate them? Let's just enjoy our games together!
But I do feel like I dealt with many of the issues that are covered in this video. I don't like talking on voice chat and will usually mute it at the first opportunity. I have had to answer questions about my gender (I've been told that I sound like a twelve year-old boy) for really no reason. I've had really uncomfortable moments where people have asked me how old I was (I got a totally creepy vibe from that one and actually lied about it because of that vibe--if anyone asks I'm 65 and newly retired). I've seen other women do ridiculous things to get in good with the crowd and then have it completely backfire (it's never a good idea to send anyone nudes--just don't do it!). It's sad that I don't want to play multiplayer games because I know I'll be harassed, that I can't talk on voice chat, and that women are pressured to expose themselves to fit in.
I do think video games need a feminist voice. I'm not saying that they need to completely change, but there is a deeply disturbing part of gamer culture that has made something that is supposed to be fun into something miserable for women. Come on guys, think about it--you have an opportunity to share your hobby or passion with women. Isn't that a good thing? Wouldn't you rather share the experience than simply try to shut women out or isolate them? Let's just enjoy our games together!
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